Environment

  Environment...  This is very important factor for building a person's future, did you agree with me? Why I say so? I may explain to you what I understand about the different of environment...
  Good environment... Many people say if people grow up in a good environment, they will be a nice person but did you think so? For me, NO!!!! Why? People that grow in a good environment, they will be hard to be nice in future because they not easy to feel thankful maybe some still think that normally this kind of good environment must be given to them, only they suit for it... People grow in good environment is not very independent because all the things they want, parent will automatically prepare for them... But they will have a lot of happiness and sweet memories.....
  Bad environment... A lot of people grow in a bad environment, they will be very tough and very independent in future, maybe you will think that is a good things... Honestly, that is a good things that bring bad things... Why I say so? People which grow from bad environment, they do anything also only can count on themselves, no matter they tired or hurt, they still need to stand up and finish up those things they handle, they unable rest or show tired, they may just acting tough and getting stronger by forcing themselves... Even though in the end they are success but they had lost their happiness and sweet dream, in the end they just own sadness, tired, bad memories and negative thinking about this world....
  I'm wondering... Which environment should I give to my future son and daughter.... I want them be tough and independent but not in a bad environment and also not in a good environment... Bad environment is not good for them, good environment is too good for them already... OMG! Headache.....